Simple Tools for Joyful Structure
Welcome to the Spoon & Sky Blog — a space filled with easy at-home activities, parenting tips, DIY crafts, calming routines, and simple self-care ideas for families. Created by artist and mom Lily Luz, our posts are designed to bring more joy, calm, and playful structure into everyday life. Whether you’re looking for fun crafts for kids, parenting hacks, family routines, or gentle ways to support self-regulation, you’ll find inspiration and practical tips here. Explore our guides, activities, and thoughtful ideas to create more connection, creativity, and calm at home.



There’s something magical about watching a child lose themselves in the act of creating — the hush that falls as concentration takes over, the tiny tongue poking out in focus, the pure joy of seeing an idea turn into something real. But if you’ve ever found yourself scraping dried glue off the table or wondering…

If you’ve ever watched your child go from giggling to melting down in 30 seconds flat, you already know what emotional regulation looks like in progress. It’s the lifelong skill of feeling big emotions — and learning how to manage them without getting lost in the storm. And here’s the truth: kids aren’t born knowing…
Morning is supposed to be a fresh beginning — birds singing, sun streaming in, everyone calmly eating breakfast before the day begins. But for most parents of young children, it looks more like this: One child can’t find their shoes. Another insists they don’t like the cereal they happily ate yesterday. Someone forgot homework, the…

There’s something magical about the sound of rain tapping against the windows — until you realize the kids are bouncing off the walls and you’ve already said “no more screens” three times before lunch. Rainy days can feel long, especially with little ones at home, but they’re also an invitation to slow down, get creative,…

Screens are everywhere — tablets, phones, TVs, computers. They’re handy for a quick break, but sometimes we long for something else: play that sparks imagination, builds skills, and actually helps children burn energy without the glow of a screen. The trouble is, when kids are tired after school or restless on weekends, asking them to…

October brings that magical mix of crunchy leaves underfoot, pumpkin-scented everything, and children buzzing with excitement at the thought of costumes, candy, and crafts. 🎃 But if you’re like most parents, the idea of yet another messy project — glitter explosions, paint-streaked furniture, papier-mâché ghosts that never dry — can feel overwhelming. The good news?…
Parenting often feels like a constant tug-of-war between giving our children what they need and carving out even the tiniest space for ourselves. We want to nurture, protect, and guide — but we’re also human beings with our own limits, preferences, and rhythms. Here’s the truth: caring for yourself isn’t selfish. It’s a model. When…
Evenings with children are often painted in dreamy tones: stories by lamplight, warm baths, cuddles before bed. In reality, many families know the other version: kids bouncing off the walls, squabbles over toothbrushes, cries of “I’m not tired!” and parents counting down the minutes until quiet finally arrives. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.…

Halloween isn’t just about costumes and candy — it’s also the perfect excuse to get kids into the kitchen. For children ages 3–8, making their own festive snacks can be as magical as trick-or-treating itself. Not only do they get to help, stir, sprinkle, and decorate, but they also practice real-life skills: measuring, following steps,…

There’s something powerful in a story — especially when children see themselves in the pages. During Black History Month, we have a chance not only to remember struggles, but to celebrate joy, innovation, resilience, and voices that more often go unheard. A great way to begin is by reading books together — picture books, narrative…

If there’s one time of day that tests every parent’s patience, it’s the morning rush. Backpacks need packing, shoes go missing, and someone suddenly doesn’t like the cereal they adored yesterday. Add in the need to feed kids something nutritious (and ideally quick), and mornings can feel like an Olympic-level juggling act. But here’s the…

Children are bundles of energy. Some mornings it feels like they’re vibrating with excitement before you’ve even finished your first sip of tea, while other times they’re sluggish, dragging their feet to get dressed. Movement is one of the best tools we have to help children reset — whether that means shaking out wild energy,…
Your child shows you who they are through creativity —
through scribbles, stories, colours, and play.
This free starter kit gives you simple, gentle ways to connect, calm, and understand your child… even on the busiest days.
Just pick one page.
Spend five minutes together.
Feel the shift.
✨ 10 easy creative prompts (under 5 minutes each)
✨ A guide to understanding your child through creativity
✨ A seasonal sampler + mini colouring book
✨ Calm ideas you can use today